Friday morning Chattanooga lost one of it's amazing residents, Brother Ron Fender (Episcopal Brotherhood of St Gregory). I had the extreme pleasure of knowing him for over 15 years. Brother Ron was a colleague, co-worker, great friend, and an amazing human being.
Brother Ron spent many years as an outreach case manager at the Chattanooga Community Kitchen. I have worked with some cool people over the years, but he was special. He was kind, compassionate, empathetic, accepting and a very holy and spiritual man.
Brother Ron embodied what a Christian really is and should be. Non judgmental, open minded, loving, and understanding. Working with him was like having Christ in the room with you. Brother Ron did the Lord's work- caring for poor and needy people. He always put others needs first.
The Episcopal churches in and around Chattanooga were blessed to have this man as part of the Diocese and community. His loss will be mourned by many. He is now dining at the Lord's Table.
Rest in peace my brother.
Dale R. Souders
USN RET Chattanooga
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I agree wholeheartedly with Dale Souders, and echo his sentiments concerning the death of Brother Ron Fender. I had the pleasure of interviewing Ron on a professional basis a number of years ago, and from that point forward we quickly became personal friends.
I have known very few Christians who not only talked the talk, but indeed walked the walk to the extent Ron Fender did. He was a selfless servant to his ministry, his community, and his fellow man. Always quick with a smile, he could make you feel truly blessed in numerous ways. He was indeed non-judgmental, caring, and a truly kind soul.
We've always been taught that God knows best; but I've often wondered why so many sorry, basically worthless human beings are left alive - and some thrive - while so many jewels like Ron Fender are taken from us way too soon.
Rest well, Brother Ron.
You've Earned it.
Chip Chapman
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I can only concur with Mr. Souders and my friend Chip Chapman. Brother Ron made a lasting impression on so many and, thank God, one of them was me.
He was a true blessing to this city and way beyond as well.
Michael Lawrence