Bob Tamasy
Have you ever experienced trying to eat a bowl of ice cream after it’s been sitting out at room temperature for a while? Who likes soupy ice cream that has lost its “cool refresher” properties? Definitely not the remedy for a hot day.
How about going to a restaurant for an eagerly anticipated meal and being disappointed to discover that when the food’s served, it’s barely warm? You’re tempted to spit it out of your mouth. I don’t know about you, but I like my cold food and drinks cold, and hot food and drinks hot. Not lukewarm or barely chilled.
It’s the same with relationships. Ideally the time we spend with our loved ones is characterized by enthusiasm. We enjoy being together. We don’t have to feel excitement all the time – that’s unrealistic – but should look forward to hanging out with one another. It can be disheartening for a parent to return from a long business trip and instead of a warm ’welcome back!’ from spouse and kids, to receive nothing more than a collective shrug. Someone even coined the term, “Meh.”
This can be problematic from a spiritual perspective as well. During my young adult years, I attended church, but it didn’t take a lot of persuasion or rationalizing for me to skip a Sunday. I believed in God, but my religious practices were little more than routines or rituals, hardly devotion. And during the week you would have been hard-pressed to discern any spiritual convictions based on how I conducted my life. My “faith,” if I could have called it that, was lukewarm at best.
We find this kind of attitude vividly illustrated in Revelation, the final book of the Bible’s New Testament. The apostle John was instructed to write letters of both commendation and rebuke to major churches in the province of Asia. Among them was the church in the city of Laodicea.
Unlike other assemblies of believers that were commended for their commitment to the Lord, the Laodiceans received no figurative pats on the back. Instead, speaking through John, God chastised them: “I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm – neither hot nor cold – I am about to spit you out of My mouth” (Revelation 3:15-16).
These folks were “lukewarm – neither hot nor cold.” They didn’t offer strong opposition, but neither did they exhibit a zealous commitment to the Lord. If charged with being followers of Jesus Christ there probably wouldn’t have been enough evidence to convict them.
Sadly, 2,000 years later things haven’t changed much. Many churches are filled with individuals going through the motions, half-hearted in their convictions, impatiently waiting for the worship service to end so they can get on with their lives. Is it any wonder that despite the high percentage of people categorizing themselves as “Christians,” the impact of biblical values and principles in our nation has been low?
Reading further in the brief passage directed toward the Laodiceans, there’s some encouraging news. After this stern reproof, the lukewarm believers were given a compassionate admonition: “Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest, and repent” (Revelation 3:19). The love and kindness God extends toward His children – even wayward, complacent ones – are limitless. He longs for us to return to Him, using discipline when needed to correct us and regain our attention. He doesn’t want to spit us out of His mouth.
Toward the end of this message, we find words that many of us have heard applied to evangelizing non-believers. However, the context clearly indicates it’s directed primarily toward tepid believers who have closed the Lord off from their lives. “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with Me” (Revelation 3:20).
This evokes the image of Jesus Christ standing outside a door waiting to be invited inside. There are even numerous paintings of this scene, some depicting Him rapping on a door having no outside handle. If the door is to open, it will have to be opened from the inside.
In my case, the Lord kept knocking on my heart’s door for years before I came to a clear understanding of my sinfulness and need for His forgiveness and redemption. I can’t point to a specific day and hour when I came to saving faith in Christ but can recall a time when I knew that I knew that I knew – no more doubts – that I was a child of God, eternally secure in my relationship with Him. As Jesus said, “All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and whoever comes to Me I will never cast out” (John 6:37).
It's never a bad thing to reassess where we stand with Jesus. Have we invited Him to stay, to have continual fellowship with us, or is He still knocking at the door of our hearts while we settle for a casual, lukewarm existence?
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Robert J. Tamasy is a veteran journalist, former newspaper editor, and magazine editor. Bob has written, co-authored and edited more than 20 books. These include ”Marketplace Ambassadors”; “Business At Its Best: Timeless Wisdom from Proverbs for Today’s Workplace”; “Tufting Legacies,” “The Heart of Mentoring,” and “Pursuing Life With a Shepherd’s Heart.” He writes and edits a weekly business meditation, “Monday Manna,” which is translated into nearly 20 languages and distributed via email around the world by CBMC International. The address for Bob's blog is www.bobtamasy.blogspot.com. His email address is btamasy@comcast.net.