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This may be a bit personal but I’m not going to apologize. Some of my best buddies are “going through the fire” right now and, while I dare not give examples or share names, this gives me the avenue to forward this column along. “Hey, here’s a piece I wrote for Sunday that you might enjoy.” I do that every now and again, when I write something I think is funny or when I write something certain friends will enjoy. But this one’s different. It’s for fellow strugglers like me.
Max Lucado, a pastor down in San Antonio, speaks my language, which is why I’ve read a pile of his books.
Last week he wrote an “opinion piece” on the Fox News’ website that appealed to me and, as I read it, I found myself wondering if I should forward it to certain friends, whether they are Christian believers of not. You see, we all need a friend – a partner of sorts – and while I’ve always been hesitant about foisting my personal beliefs on others, this way I can send them a copy of my column – that contains Max’s wisdom. You know, as just a friend who cares…
There is nothing sissy about seeking a partner during the tough times but, as Max shared on the Fox website, there is “an essential way.” You reckon you might know somebody who would read about Queen Esther? Or her true partner? I know I do … and later today I can send my column around with the note …” Hey, might be you need a partner right now?”
This could be a Sunday blessing for somebody you know …
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“WANT TO PARTNER WITH GOD? HERE IS THE ONE ESSENTIAL WAY”
By Max Lucado, appearing of the Fox News site on October 10, 2021.
Several films have been based on the Bible’s story of Esther. In the ones I have seen, she is ravishingly gorgeous. Eyes shaped like crescents, unblemished olive skin. A Hollywood heartthrob, this lady. And, indeed, she must have been as she was selected as the queen of Persia out of a harem of lovely contenders.
The movies are equally unanimous as to the moment of high drama: Esther and her unsolicited visit to King Xerxes (pronounced “ZER-keys”). She stands at the throne room entryway, robed in elegance. The camera can hardly bear to turn away from her splendor. When it does, we see Xerxes wide-eyed with mouth open. "What can I do for you, my beauty?"
The implied message of the movies is clear: the good looks of Esther softened and swayed the hard heart of Xerxes. Yet Scripture tells a different story. Yes, she appeared before the king. Yes, she did so at great risk. And, yes, Xerxes lowered his scepter and invited her to enter. But it wasn’t her beauty that made the difference.
Look at the text, and see if you agree.
Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: "Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my attendants will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish." (Book of Ester 4:15–16 NIV)
Esther faced an immovable wall and the possibility of death for making the wrong move. She responded, not with a call to her hair stylist, but with a retreat into the prayer chamber. Rather than rush into the throne room of Xerxes, she humbled herself and stepped into the throne room of God.
In the movie I wish someone would make, Esther crumbles into a heap, face-first on the floor of her bedroom. Her nation is about to be led to slaughter. It’s going to be a bloodbath, and she sleeps with the king who ordered it. Her handmaids see her fall to the ground and rush to her aid. She waves them away. "Just get word to Mordecai: I’ll go to see the king. Even if it costs me my life. Tell everyone to pray."
What if the only thing between you and a season of refreshing is prayer?
This is a new Esther. Until this point she had relied on her good looks. Now she casts herself upon her God. She will soon stand before Xerxes. She will soon risk her life. She will seek the reversal of an irreversible law that has been sponsored by the most powerful man in the empire and endorsed with the king’s own signet ring.
She knows that God’s intervention is their only hope. This is a prayer of desperation. Three days. No food. No water. Fears took her sleep. Hunger gnawed at her gut. Dehydration dried her skin and hollowed her eyes. She prayed a prayer of tears.
You may know what happened next. When Esther entered the king’s throne room, she was once again a head-to-toe picture of Persian perfection. One look at her and the jaw of Xerxes hit the ground. The scripture says, "he was pleased with her and held out to her the gold scepter that was in his hand" (5:2).
But it wasn’t her glamour that opened the throne room door. It was her prayers. She came before the king in beauty only after she lingered before the King of kings in humility. Aren’t we called to do the same?
Many years ago when our family lived in Brazil, a new Christian came to one of our church leaders with a question. He’d been reading his Bible (good for him), and he discovered this promise: "Whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive" (Matt. 21:22 NKJV).
"Does our church believe this passage?" he wondered.
What is a missionary to say? "Yes, of course."
"Then," he posed, "why do we work so hard and pray so little?"
Good question. Why do we? What if the only thing between you and a season of refreshing is prayer? I don’t mean a shallow tip o’ the hat to the "man upstairs." I’m talking about heartfelt prayer. I can’t think of a more simple – or more important – way that we can partner with God in the midst of our challenges.
What is your version of Xerxes? Is your job in jeopardy? Is your loved one in hospice? Is your family under attack? Is your faith in tatters? Retreat into your prayer closet.
The queen could enter the throne room of Xerxes because she had spent time in the throne room of God. The same is true in your story and mine. Once we’ve spoken to the King of heaven, we are ready to face any king on earth.
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(Max Lucado is a San Antonio pastor and best-selling author. His most recent book is "You Were Made for This Moment: Courage for Today, Hope for Tomorrow" (September 2021, Thomas Nelson). He is also the host of the "Max Lucado Encouraging Word" podcast. Visit his website at www.MaxLucado.com or follow him on Twitter: @MaxLucado.)
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